Why Losing Weight is So Hard!

Losing weight has become a major issue in our society today.

So many people are finding that losing weight is almost an impossible task for them to achieve. However the failures are not just about failing to look good. There are a mulitiude of health problems connected to being overweight, and that is the bigger picture here. To put it bluntly failure to lose weight means a reduction in the amount of time that you are going to live. This may not be something that you think about, but you will be forced to at some point in your life.So whether you want lose stomach fat or fat from any other area of your body, it is important that you think seriously about the situation.

Sooner or later you are going to get sick because your body will have lost the abilitiy to protect itself because of all the internal abuse that it has been suffering over the years. High blood pressure, breathing problems, heart diseases, diabetes, bone diseases, internal organs being weakened to the point that they can't work, are just some of the issues that you may have to face. Apart from this, having a bad diet leaves you more prone to other conditions like hemroids , and even eczema is related to having a poor det. Although  losing weight is fine just for cosmetic reasons, there are deeper issues which go far beyond attractiveness.

So why is it that losing weight is so difficult?  For many people it isn't through the lack of effort. A lot of people have tried all sorts of losing weight, and in the vast majority of cases, few people actually succeed in the long term. A big factor is that we have this belief that losing weight is a temporary thing. We do it for a while to get where we want to and then we stop and revert back into our oldhabits, and then at some point we try again. Mind you this is not the story for everyone, many of us don't ever get to the stage where we are happy with the amount of weight we may have lost. However there are reasons as to why weight loss is such a hard goal to achieve,and you may be surprised to hear that the biggest hurdle is not your diet or your exercise plan!

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One of the major problems is that if we behave in a certain way for a certain length of time, then those behaviours become habits. We all know that some habits can be very difficult to change. Any type of lifestyle regardless whether it is good or bad will become a habit. In order to change that habit you must work on it, not just with physical changes, but more importantly you must work on it with mental changes.

Anything that you achieve or want to achieve first begins as a desire in your mind. Everything that has ever been invented or achieved first began as a desire in someone’s mind. First there was the desire, then there was the vision, and finally there was the process of taking action to turn that desire into reality. The problem is that many people have the desire to lose weight, but on its own it is never going to be enough. If it was then nobody would have issues with weight.

If you want to lose weight you would normally follow this pattern. You start changing your diet and you become more active through exercise or other means. Everything seems to go fine for a few weeks, or even a month or so. Then things start getting a little harder, you begin to find it more and more difficult to stick to your weight loss plan. Eventually it gets so hard that you give up and sink back into your old habits. This is a common problem for many people who want to lose weight.

There are mainly two reasons as to why this happens.

The first reason is that too many people rush into losing weight by trying to lose too much too quickly. They do this by making too many sudden changes to their diet, and try to do more exercise than their bodies can handle at that time. Your body is happy to accept changes if they are introduced in small steps. If you try to impose too many changes in large steps, then your body will fight you. Every part of you will start to rebel against what you are trying to do. You need to wean yourself off your current lifestyle by taking it one step at a time. This is the only way that you will successfully lose weight in the long term.

It takes time for the human body to change, time for it to move away from what it is, to become something different. Think of it this way; you need to wean a baby off milk to introduce it solid foods; you don’t start stuffing food into the baby’s mouth out of the blue. A drug addict has to be weaned off drugs, an addicts body would find it extremely difficult to stop straight away. It takes years for top athletes to prepare their bodies so they can compete at the highest levels; you are not going to be able to tackle a marathon after a couple of weeks of jogging. When it comes to losing weight most people have very unrealistic expectations. It took time for their bodies to become overweight, so it’s logical to expect that it will take time to lose that weight.

The second reason why so many people fail to lose weight is because they don’t change the way that they think, when they are trying to lose weight. They continue to think of themselves as people who are overweight and find it hard to lose weight. This way of thinking does not match the changes that you trying to make physically. You need to start thinking of yourself as a person that can easily lose weight. It doesn’t matter what your eyes tell you, but it does matter what your mind tells you. If you keep telling yourself that weight loss is really hard, and that you don’t like exercise, or that you don’t have the willpower, what do you think is going to happen?

Basically you are sending messages to your mind that you can’t lose weight. If your mind believes that you can’t lose weight how can you expect it to give you the motivation and willpower to succeed? You need to start sending different messages to your mind, you need to start telling yourself that weight loss is easy, tell yourself that you can easily change your eating habits, that you enjoy the challenge of exercise, and that you will have no problems of reaching your weight loss goals.

Tell yourself this several times a day, everyday. It doesn’t matter if you don’t believe all this in the beginning. We all know the adage that if you tell a child that he or she is stupid often enough, it is only a matter of time before that child starts to believe it. In a short time you will start to believe what you are saying to yourself. When your mind believes something, that belief becomes a fact in your mind, and a fact is something very real. Many people ignore how important the role of the mind is when it comes to losing weight. Try it for yourself for a couple of weeks, how hard can it be to repeat a few phrases in your mind throughout the day? 

Of course you may feel a bit foolish saying this to yourself, but who's going to know? Having the correct mindset to lose weight is going to be the deciding factor in whether you succeed or fail. Remember that nothing in your own life will ever get done without your approval to yourself, whether it's washing the car, making a cup of coffee, going on holiday, going to work, and so on. By not believing that you can lose wait, you are not giving yourself any approval, and any attempts at losing weight are really a wasted effort, because your mind will lead you back to your old habits. This can only be avoided if your mind has new habits which it believes in. Losing weight does not need to be difficult, it all depends on how strongly you can get yourself to believe that!

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